We may argue more than once about every phase of a big project but we share the same big picture. We want to make things pretty and not go broke in the process. This is analogous to our whole marriage. We do bicker and can get into some pretty sticky disagreements but we share a vision of the same big marriage picture. We want to make a beautiful life together without breaking it (or each other, except where we need to be broken) in the process.
Thankful to have been loved as a wife by this man, and been allowed the blessing of loving his stubborn butt (takes one to love one to death) for very nearly 20 years.