That’s the thing about porn… you may have convinced yourself that it’s all about you. It’s just your issue… how could it really affect her that much? But you are wrong. It is a deep wound that scabs over and is ripped off repeatedly, leaving not one, but two souls terribly scarred. There is only one place to find true and lasting freedom from the prisons we create for ourselves. It’s in Jesus… and we can only experience the grace of forgiveness in the grace of humble, broken repentance before God and one another. If you are afraid of the pain or vulnerability of repentance, find someone who will accompany you on your knees, someone who knows the taste of freedom enough to keep holding it up before you.
“Come to me all who are weary and heavy laden and you will find rest for your souls.” – Jesus